What are parents looking for when they apply to the Parents of Trans Youth Community? “Parent support and ideas for helping my amazing kids feel unconditionally loved.” “Ideas about how to make a difference more broadly than just parenting my kid.” “I just want to feel less alone and terrified.” “Support, friendship, empathy, connection, validation.” "A place I can talk about my feelings with people who understand.” "Community has been the one thing that has kept us moving forward with hope....
4 days ago • 1 min read
This week, I gave a presentation to PFLAG Manhattan Beach/South Bay; they wanted to hear all about what's new at Parents of Trans Youth and "how I'm still standing in these unprecedented times." At the top of my list is intentional joy. For me, laughter and silliness are crucial, and I try not to take myself too seriously. Halloween 2025 When watch TV, I choose funny shows to balance out the dystopian shows I watch with my husband. I'm currently enjoying Broad City 👇 We laugh a lot in the...
8 days ago • 1 min read
Parents of Trans Youth has a busy couple of weeks coming up! Here where you can find us: PFLAG Manhattan Beach/South Bay March 18, 7-9pm PDT (Online) - Virtual Transgender + Gender Expansive Support Meeting My presentation will be first, and the support group is after. All are welcome! RSVP required via email or DM: rsvp@pflagmanhattanbeach.org Trot for Trans Visibility March 21, 8am-4pm CDT (Houston) - Family-friendly fun run, trot, walk, or sashay. Fun run registration Parents of Trans...
11 days ago • 1 min read
Reader, everyone needs support at one time or another, especially if you're parenting transgender kiddos. Several organizations that I trust offer online support groups for parents and caregivers: Campaign for Southern Equality (Trans Youth Emergency Project) Hosted by mothasistah™ and YOURS TRULY, this is a monthly space for parents and caregivers of trans youth to gather in community, especially those who are navigating accessing gender-affirming care for their kids right now. Next group is...
15 days ago • 1 min read
This weekend, I jumped on the "This is who" trend on social media. Businesses have been posting childhood photos of themselves and/or their team members, captioned with "This is who [does a specific job task]". The trend is supposed to humanize brands and create a personal connection with their audiences. Looking back at these pictures made me think that I had NO idea I'd be doing what I am today, even as recently as a few years ago. I had no clue what being transgender meant when my first...
18 days ago • 2 min read
A few weeks ago, I had surgery for a back issue, and the recovery has been a bit rougher than I anticipated. In addition to feeling significant soreness and fatigue, I was not allowed to raise my arms above my shoulders or bend, lift, or twist for 30 days. Yesterday finally marked 30 days since the surgery, and I celebrated by doing exciting things like bending over to tie my shoes, leaning over to put my breakfast dishes in the dishwasher, and reaching for office supplies on a high shelf. I...
22 days ago • 1 min read
Reader, I know the info below won't apply to everyone. If you're not a parent of a trans kiddo, no worries. But you might know someone who is. Please consider forwarding this email their way. I want as many parents as possible to know this important resource exists. TIA! Come be with people who just GET IT. The Parents of Trans Youth Community (PTYC) is a secure, upbeat online space for parents and caregivers who affirm and support their trans kids (of any age). You’ll find like-minded folks,...
25 days ago • 1 min read
Did you catch the President's State of the Union speech this week? Nah, I didn't either. I figured I'd catch the highlights later rather than subjecting myself to that man's voice for 107 minutes. As you can imagine, this "highlight" really chapped my hide: "No state can be allowed to rip children from their parents' arms and transition them to a new gender against the parents’ will. Who would believe that we’re even talking about this? We must ban it, and we must ban it immediately." Raise...
29 days ago • 1 min read
For the past five years, journalist Erin Reed has maintained a list of transgender and nonbinary Girl Scouts selling cookies, encouraging her readers to buy from them! If you're looking to fill your Girl Scout cookie fix, consider buying from one of the kiddos on Erin's list. Click here for the Girl Scout list! Buy from Girl Scouts who have not reached their goals, and choose the “ship the cookies” option and not the “deliver the cookies” option (so some poor Girl Scout won't have to deliver...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read