Find the joy!

Published about 2 months ago • 1 min read

Reader, it seems like every time I turn around, I hear another depressing news story about transphobic crap - new policies, proposed laws, or people just generally being jerks.

So I have a challenge for you ... FIND THE JOY.

Joy is what keeps us going and gives us hope.

Find the joy in your community, whether that's other parents of trans kids (who just GET IT), the trans community, or the larger LGBTQ+ community (or all of the above!).

Find the joy in little things, like GOOD news about trans folks (try here or here) or the perfect buttermilk biscuit (my eternal quest).

Most importantly, find the joy in your kid. Supporting and affirming your kid's gender identity will have a huge positive impact on their mental health. Which will bring them joy. Which will bring you joy. It's just one big circle of joy!

Where are you finding joy these days?

🔮 What we're up to inside the Parents of Trans Youth Community: August 2026

🎬 Movie Night - We’ll discuss Laverne Cox’s documentary “Disclosure.” So powerful.

🤗 New Member Welcome Call - Get acclimated to our community space AND get to know a small group of folks right away.

🫂 Day and Evening Support Groups - Bring your joys and challenges to this space to get support from other parents of trans kids and young adults. Always a powerful time.

🏳️‍⚧️ “Turning Allyship into Action” - In this session, I'll share how to turn our good intentions into concrete supportive actions for the trans community.

Want in? This month’s application window is open through August 7.

Click for more info on PTYC!

Mandy Giles (she/her)
Founder and CEO
Parents of Trans Youth

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