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A few years ago, I was at the dentist's office with one of my kids who uses they/them pronouns. When the dentist came out to the waiting room to give me her report, she kept using the wrong pronouns for my kid. I could barely concentrate on the report because I was thinking, Do I interrupt and correct her? Do I wait until she’s done talking? What if I make things awkward? Is the correction worth it? I thankfully came to my senses and realized that of course my child is “worth it.” I waited...