This stuff is hard


For many parents of trans kids, understanding all the “gender stuff” is hard.

Gender identity. Pronouns. Gender expression. Transitioning. It’s a lot.

I get it. I've been there.

But you don’t have to understand everything to be supportive.

Understanding comes with learning, talking with your kid, connecting with other parents, and time.

And you might never fully understand your transgender child’s journey, because it’s their journey, not yours. And that's OK.

Just keep on loving, supporting, and affirming them the best that you can.

You're not alone, and you're doing great.


Need a place to connect with other parents?

Try the Parents of Trans Youth Community! Support groups, guest experts, book club, movie club, moderated discussion spaces - all in one place.

The next application window is August 1 - 7.

Mandy Giles (she/her)
Founder and CEO
Parents of Trans Youth

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