Reader, did you know that anyone can schedule a quick chat with me? I talk to parents of trans kids and young adults all the time about all sorts of things! Maybe their kid came out to them recently, and they’re struggling. Maybe they're wavin’ the trans flag for their kid but have a specific question. Maybe they just want to talk to someone they won’t run into at the grocery store! And maybe they've never met another parent of a trans kid and just need to know they’re not alone. Once a...

Know Yourself: Take the time to understand your values and what brings you joy. Be Yourself: Embrace your quirks, passions, and uniqueness. Don't waste energy pretending to be someone you're not. Love Yourself: Practice self-compassion (here's a helpful resource). Treat yourself with kindness and respect. You deserve it. Happy Friday! Mandy Giles (she/her)Founder and CEOParents of Trans Youth p.s. Click here to receive additional emails specific to Texas news and events. p.s.s. But wait!...

So your transgender, non-binary, or gender-diverse kid has a new name. Hooray! But how should you refer to them before they transitioned (or started using a new name and pronouns)? The general practice is to use the new name all the time, for everything. For example, you might remember a family gathering before your child transitioned. You'd say, "Oh, remember when [new name] burped the whole alphabet? [New pronoun] had us all crying with laughter." It might feel unfamiliar and a little...