So your transgender, non-binary, or gender-diverse kid has a new name. Hooray! But how should you refer to them before they transitioned (or started using a new name and pronouns)? The general practice is to use the new name all the time, for everything. For example, you might remember a family gathering before your child transitioned. You'd say, "Oh, remember when [new name] burped the whole alphabet? [New pronoun] had us all crying with laughter." It might feel unfamiliar and a little...

First, an apology. I normally send short and sweet emails on Tuesdays and Fridays, and I realized yesterday that I missed the last 2 email days. I'm sure you were just twisted up with anxiety, Reader, wondering why you hadn't heard from me. Here's who's been distracting me lately: Meet Cooper! Cooper is our Golden Retriever puppy who is now 14 weeks old. He's a love bug but also a menace. I work from home, so my work hours have been basically cut in half chasing after this jellybean. So if I...

The application window for the Parents of Trans Youth Community (PTYC) is now open! Reader, you might not be the parent of a trans child. But before you close this email, think about who you know with trans kids, and consider forwarding this message to them. OK, so here's the scoop about our membership community: ✨Who is PTYC for? ✨Parents and caregivers who affirm their trans kids (of any age) ✨What’s inside? ✨- Live events every week- 24/7 access to moderated chat spaces- Monthly support...